As the year begins to slow down and we stand at the threshold of a new one, I often notice a familiar heaviness in many hearts. On the surface, everything may look fine — plans are being made, resolutions are written, hopes are pinned on the coming year. But beneath all of that, there is often something quietly unresolved.
Unspoken hurt.
Old disappointments.
Words that were never apologized for.
Pain that was “managed” but never healed.
In my years of working closely with people through tarot, numerology, and divine energy, I have learned one thing very clearly — we do not step into a new year empty-handed. We carry our emotional baggage with us, whether we realise it or not. And forgiveness is often the heaviest bag we forget to put down.
Why Forgiveness Is Not About the Other Person
Many people tell me, “I can’t forgive because they don’t deserve it.” And I understand that feeling deeply. Forgiveness has been misunderstood for far too long. It is not about justifying someone’s actions, nor is it about reopening old wounds or allowing mistreatment again.
Forgiveness is about freeing yourself.
I’ve seen clients who were successful, intelligent, and spiritually aware — yet stuck. When we gently explored their journey, it almost always led back to unresolved resentment. Sometimes towards others. Sometimes towards circumstances. Very often, towards themselves.
Holding on to hurt is like keeping a wound open and wondering why it never heals.
Emotional Weight We Carry Into the New Year
As 2025 comes to a close, it asks us a very honest question:
What are you still carrying that no longer belongs in your future?
Unforgiven pain doesn’t stay limited to memory. It reflects in relationships, health, finances, and even our ability to receive joy. Energetically, forgiveness clears stagnant blocks that no ritual or remedy alone can dissolve.
I’ve witnessed this shift many times — when a client finally decides to forgive, not dramatically, but gently. Suddenly their tarot readings change tone. Their numerology cycles start working more smoothly. Opportunities appear where there was resistance before.
That is not coincidence. That is energy realigning.
Forgiveness as a Healing Practice
Forgiveness doesn’t always happen in one moment. Sometimes it begins with simply acknowledging the pain without judging yourself for it. Sometimes it is a quiet inner conversation. Sometimes it is saying, “I choose peace over proving a point.”
I often tell my clients:
You don’t have to forget.
You don’t have to justify.
You only have to stop letting the past control your present.
When forgiveness begins, the heart softens. And a healed heart has an incredible ability to attract better experiences, healthier relationships, and clearer decisions.
Stepping Into the New Year with a Pure Heart
A new year is not just a change of calendar — it is a shift of frequency. To truly make the most of it, we must step into it lighter, not burdened.
Imagine entering the new year without emotional debts.
Without old grudges whispering in the background.
With a heart that is open, calm, and healed.
That is when manifestations flow faster. That is when clarity sharpens. That is when life feels less forced and more guided.
Forgiveness is not weakness. It is emotional intelligence and spiritual maturity.
A Gentle Reminder Before the Year Ends
As this year closes, take a moment to ask yourself:
- Who do I need to forgive — including myself?
- What pain am I ready to release?
- What version of me deserves to walk into the new year?
Life is not something that just happens to us — it is something we participate in, consciously or unconsciously.
Be a reader of your own life.
Notice the patterns. Understand the lessons. And choose healing over holding on.
When the heart is healed, the path ahead becomes clearer.
Maharishi Meghna Ji
Divine Beam Blessingz